What I want my son to learn about fear

I confront my fears so my kid doesn't inherit them.

Changing my relationship with fears means that I can hold space for my kid to build his own path.

I want him to see that fear itself is not the enemy. It's the avoidance that creates the monster.

Fear sometimes is just a sign that we are growing beyond an old version of ourselves. Learning something new. Becoming more visible. Taking risks we cannot fully control.

Yet, when we avoid our fears and stretch the protection to the child, we can slowly tell them: "The world is dangerous." "You are fragile." "Feeling fearful is dangerous." "Avoiding is the best way to stay safe."

One day, my kid will face rejection, uncertainty, failure, heartbreak, and change as he grows into his own aspirations and identity.

And when that happens, I hope he feels: "Mom believes I can face life. I can let myself feel fearful while moving forward."

Here's to the brave moms getting stronger every day for their kids.